The Grand Finale!

In yesterday's class we had a very cool presentation on repatriation of First Nations artefacts and remains within Canada. I found the whole subject to be really interesting, especially because our presenter was outlining reasons that Canada should not implement any overarching legislation similar to the USA's NAGPRA. While she was talking about a few examples of repatriation of Canadian First Nations Groups' ancestral remains, she mentioned a museum in Glasgow called the Hunterian Museum. The Hunterian Museum is connected to the University of Glasgow and is governed by their board of directors, and she pointed them out as a stark contrast to another museum in Glasgow which is actively seeking to repatriate any remains in collections which they possess. 

(Thanks University of Glasgow!) One of the exhibits which
The Hunterian Museum displays. 

Having started my morning with this presentation, my ears perked up when 10 hours later I was sitting in another class listening to a presentation on a different topic. (Yes you read that correctly, 10 hours passed between my first and last class of the day. Wednesdays are long). In my Skeletal Diseases course we are doing presentations, and one group told us about Acromegaly and Gigantism. There was a man name Charles Byrne who was called the "Irish Giant" who suffered from this disease. When the Byrne was on his death bed, he requested to be buried at sea; however, as soon as he died doctors rushed in and purchased his body in order to study it. His skeleton is now on display, against his wishes, in the Hunterian Museum of London. Although this Hunterian Museum is not connected to that of Glasgow, both are guilty of retaining human remains against the wishes of the people themselves, or their ancestors. 

Thanks The Londonist! Follow the link in the caption to
read an interesting piece on whether or not Byrne should
finally be given his requested burial at sea.

This is such a difficult subject to discuss, because as the Hunterian in London states explicitly that they will retain or collect specimens that are either: 

"Recent (less than 100 years) specimens illustrating normal or pathological human anatomy for specific educational purposes."

or: 

"Specimens over 100 years old illustrating normal or pathological human anatomy."

See Section 3.6 for these quotes: http://www.rcseng.ac.uk/museums/documents/RCS%20Museums%20and%20Archives%20Acquistion%20-%20Disposal%20Policy.pdf 

Is it okay to retain human remains if we can gain knowledge from them? Would there be more justification if there were doctors actively studying specimens such as Byrne's skeleton rather than leaving it permanently on display? Or as someone mentioned in class yesterday, are we simply being over sensitive? 

Surprise, surprise!!

Surprise, surprise!! I'm going to tell a story about my family!

One of my uncles, Michael, went away for a trip. When he got back to Victoria, he swung by my Grandma's house to say hello and catch up with the family. Walking into the family home that morning, he looked around and saw that the kitchen was clean and there were platters of food on every available surface. My Mom and Aunt were in the kitchen, and he turned to them saying, "there's either a Christening or a funeral, which is it?"

Thanks Gourmet Delish!

It turned out to be a funeral. My family often hosted receptions for funerals as we had a huge house, so I grew up with the belief that every funeral was followed by a large celebration of the person's life, and a lot of food! When my Grandma died, I arrived at the house and walked into the kitchen at 7 in the morning and found food already all over the table. I distinctly remember that there was an abundance of food in the house over the next few days- little sandwiches, cold pizza, etc. And the reception we held after her funeral can only be called a party. Everyone was obviously very sad, but we also all comforted each other and wanted to send my Grandma off in style. 

Reading the article by Hayden (2009), it strikes me that the one element which he never really discussed as a motivation for an elaborate funeral feast (or ELFF!) was mourning a loved one. He discusses a desire to honour the deceased, but never really delves into what is to me the most obvious reason to hold a large feast and deplete all your resources: love. 

Hayden, B. (2009) Funerals as Feasts: Why Are They So Important? Cambridge Archaeological Journal 19:29-52.

Just tell them she has gone out on the roof!

There was a movie made in the 1970's called Capricorn One, from which my family got the saying "she/he/it/they have gone out on the roof". Basically this is a euphemism for "someone has died". 

Thanks BusterMerrfield
The premise of the saying is that a man's cat dies, but his brother
 doesn't inform him in a very sensitive way, leading the first man
 to suggest a better dialogue for breaking bad news. 

Unfortunately youtube/blogger won't allow me to embed the clip of this episode where the story gets told, but if you follow this link you can watch it in all its glory!! (You can also read the transcript of the scene at the end of this post!)


Growing up it wasn't uncommon for me to overhear adults talking about one relative or another going out on the roof, and it was no secret to us kids that it meant they had died. My family never intended to be insensitive about someone we loved passing on, they just felt it was best to have a healthily positive approach to this unavoidable aspect of...well...life. I don't remember the first time I was exposed to death, but I remember the first funeral I went to at which I truly understood what was happening. I was about 6 years old and I remember some details, such as the outfit I was wearing, with great clarity, but I don't remember being told that my great aunt had died, although someone must have sat me down and explained it. 


Having grown up in a household that had an open approach to discussing death with and around children, I find it difficult to remember a time that I didn't understand that people and animals die. When I hear stories about kids who were told that their beloved pet "went to the farm" I feel sorry for them. It must have been upsetting and confusing to think of their pet living in a new home with a new family, and I know that for me part of what eases the sadness of death is that I know what has happened to them. 


As they say: Scientia potestas est ie. Knowledge is power. Or in my case, comfort! 


Of course, just because a child understands death doesn't mean they are always okay with it. I was very sad at that first memorable funeral. And I still have a vivid memory of fleeing from the kitchen tv when Bambi's mother is killed to fling myself on my parents bed in tears. 


So back to the question of when is an appropriate time to explain death to children? I don't think that there is a right or wrong answer to this. Every child is different, every family is different, every situation is different. Go figure!! Also, I think that children (at least in North America) are exposed to death at a pretty young age by a lot of different channels than their parents may think. 


For example, most of our cherished Disney movies contain references or scenes of death at one point or another (much to the 5 year old Meredith's devastation)...

Thanks Forces of Geek
There is no hiding the fact that Gaston suffers a brutal death
from a big fall. Or that we are supposed to be happy about it...

Thanks The Hunchblog of Notre Dame
Not even the good characters are always safe :(

Thanks The Lion KinG
There is no attempt to hide the fact that Simba's father is dead
in this iconic scene. 

In fact, if you start looking for it, it is easy to see blatant themes of death in many aspects of stories which are told to children at fairly young ages: almost every Disney movie ever made, the beloved holiday of Halloween, Easter which celebrates the death of Jesus, any ghost story ever, the seemingly innocent tale of the Gingerbread Man, even the beloved children's classic The Little Prince!! Not to mention the original Fairy Tales of the Brothers' Grimm.

Thanks My//Your//Our (MYOUR) Sadhana
The first time I read this I cried like a baby at the end!

There is an interesting article in British paper The Telegraph which addresses the reasons behind some parents choosing not to read their children certain stories. Even Goldilocks and the Three Bears makes the list!


As one of my classmates (Jaylene Horvath) pointed out in her blog, our society seems to have a consuming fascination with death and dying in our entertainment, yet it remains a taboo subject in many ways. I wonder if this is perhaps due to the fact that modern medicine has made it so that death affects the elderly, and the death of younger individuals is mostly either due to diseases to which there is not a completely effective cure, or to tragic accidents. I wonder if we attempt to emotionally anesthetize ourselves so as not to suffer through the pain of losing a loved one in a similar way that people in countries with hight infant mortality rates hold off on considering their children "people" until they have survived a certain amount of time? I'm not quite sure what I am trying to say here, but I feel that maybe the pain of loss, and the fear of facing one's own mortality perhaps drives people to ignore death as much as possible? I know for myself that this approach wouldn't work, but maybe that is only because of the particular environment in which I was raised. 


Unfortunately dear Readers, despite pontificating on this subject for the last 900 or so words, I am no closer to having a concrete idea of when is an appropriate age or way to discuss death with children. All I can suggest is that when the time comes, you keep in mind what euphemisms you use may be misunderstood from time to time....


For example, in the car on the way home from elementary school one afternoon, my Mom casually informed my brothers and I that one of our black labs, Chester, had gone out on the roof. A stricken silence fell over us and we sat there as she continued to explain: "Grandma must have left her window open a little wide, and he just squeezed himself out and onto the roof. The neighbours came over to tell us and we all watched as he leapt from the roof and landed in the bush growing next to the house." "Oh my God, that's awful!" I exclaimed, "poor Chester! Dermot (my Uncle who's dog Chester was) must be devastated" Much to my shock my Mom replied that he actually found the whole thing rather funny, and that Chester seemed shaken but was overall fine. I still remember sitting there and incredulously asking "if he is still alive, why did you tell us he had gone out on the roof!??" 

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Here is the transcript of the scene which gave my family this amusing saying! Thank you http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/ Capricorn_One :)

"There’s this guy, see. He takes a trip to Europe. It’s his first vacation in a long time. Sees the sights, you know? He has a real good time. Anyway, after a while he decides to call home. He gets his brother on the phone, and the guy says to his brother, “How’s everything at home?” And his brother says, “Your…your cat died.” And the guy says to his brother, “You shouldn’t tell me bad news like that. You should…break it to me gently. You know…like…you should say something like…’The cat...crawled out on the roof...and...chasing squirrels…and…got stuck. We had to call the fire department…and when they finally got there…the fireman crawled up, he grabbed the cat, but on the way down he slipped and the cat…fell to the ground. And, they had to take the cat to the vet. They…tried to save the cat…even operated...on the cat. But it was too late. The - they couldn’t…save the cat’. That’s how you should break…bad news like that.” So the guy says to his brother…….“How’s Mom?” And the brother says…….”She’s on the roof.” Get it? She’s on the roof. [Laughing, sobbing] She’s on the roof. Get it?"

Bazinga!!

Welcome fearless followers!!!

Join me on this exciting journey as we delve into the past to examine the ever fascinating subject of Brangelina vampirism...

(Thank you Andy's Film Blog) Actor Bela Lugosi portrays 
the classic image of the most famous vampire: Dracula.

Over the last few years the growing obsession with vampires in pop culture has led to the deterioration of the classic notion of "vampires"...

(Thanks Digital Citizen) Vampires have been romanticized
in recent years with movies and shows like Twilight, True Blood,
and the Vampire Diaries. 

...leading to most websites and blogs on vampires containing very little valuable information about the actual occurance of vampire burials in the past. However, the history of vampires (or vampyre, vrykolakas, strigoi, or wąpierz depending on where you are from) is very rich, and has much archaeological evidence to back up the numerous traditions and beliefs.

Disclaimer: I am not saying that vampires as we think of them exist(ed), simply that many societies believed in the dead rising to drink the blood of the living, and thus dealt with them in various ways which have left a mark in the archaeological record.

Despite the fact that there are so many documented cases of vampire burials, finding reliable historical and anthropological information in most websites is like trying to understand Sheldon Cooper's jokes. It's improbable. (Disclaimer 2: I have been watching a lot of Big Bang theory lately.) But despair not intrepid reader, there are a few accurate and informative sites out there. Niels Petersen of Denmark is the author of the blog Magia Posthuma (Which roughly translated from Latin means "magic after death") that contains numerous posts regarding, you guessed it: Vampires!!

(Thanks Niels Petersen!) Follow the link attached to his name in the caption
to see this fantastically informative blog :)

Petersen's blog has been active since 2007 when he began posting regularly about the subject of vampires. Contrary to what is found on most websites which focus on the undead, this site is dedicated to a mix of historically and archaeologically accurate records and discoveries which pertain to this fascinating subject! Interestingly, he also comments regularly on the pervasiveness of vampire mania or "vampania" (my newly coined term!) in modern society.
Using the criteria from a marking rubric which my group has designed, I'm going to assess and grade Petersen's blog for this week's blogpost! 


Analysis 10/10: Magia Posthuma is a well written and incredibly informative site. It contains 534 posts (!!!!) which span over six years and it appears that they are all interconnected. Many of the posts he writes contain links to other related topics which he has commented on and he has many sources throughout. Despite the prolific nature of his postings, Petersen manages to connect his posts back to one another seamlessly. Making it far too easy to get drawn down the rabbit hole and into the world of vampire studies. 

(Thank you Kameron Hurley) This is the proverbial "rabbit hole"
down which I often fall when engrossed in a subject. 

Content & Background Information 9.5/10: Although Petersen uses a huge number of sources and various documents throughout each and every post, he ties them in so seamlessly that they add to, rather than detract from, the reader's understanding. Furthermore, he often provides photographs of many of the primary sources to which he refers throughout. The one thing he could improve upon is indicating who provided the translations of sources in various foreign languages. Even if he is responsible for the work himself, I feel that indicating this would be helpful as who does a translation could skew the accuracy in some instances, and it allows readers to judge the accuracy for themselves. 


Resources 5/5: The greatest strength of this blog is the sources made accessible to the public by Petersen! He tends to introduce a main article, archaeological site, or primary source document at the beginning of most posts, then proceed to discuss the research and information surrounding that item. This provides the reader with an in depth analysis of numerous interesting sources, all of which connect intimately with one another and the main vampiric theme of the site. Many of the sources he uses are in a foreign language, and he provides extensive translations and interpretations which increase the reader's understanding and appreciation of the information enormously. 


Layout, Navigation, & Presentation 4.5/5: This website is, for the most part, very user friendly and accessible to a varied audience. While academics can appreciate the numerous scholarly references and extensive quoting of primary sources, even casual vampania enthusiasts will find the site informative and entertaining! All of his explanations of material follow a consistent style, and are easily read. My one complaint is that due to the large number of blogs, it is difficult to browse through them with ease. Furthermore, there is no simple way to see what all of the posts are about based simply upon the title. While I am not one to point fingers at bloggers with catchy yet unconnected titles designed to entice reader (coughbazingacough), I feel that with a blog that caters to such a specific topic, a little bit more clarity would have increased the ease of navigation. 


Thus Petersen's blog scores a 29/30 overall! I hope my group's website does nearly as well!!

Thanks Pusparaniology!!

On a side note: I find it really fascinating that in today's day and age of electronically available information, it has never been more important to assess sources critically. As soon as I foray outside of the UVic library search engine, I become instantly wary of ever word I read! 

Thanks Sangent for this adorably suspicious puppy!

This is probably for the best, but it makes placing my trust in personal blogs and websites difficult. It is always refreshing to come across sites written by people who are clearly in the academic field, or who provide reliable sources for their information. Sites like Petersen's prove to me that providing accurate information in a way that is assessable to the wider public is not only doable, it can be a medium that is excelled in!




Petersen, N.K. (2012). Magia Posthuma. [Available at] http://magiaposthuma.blogspot.ca/ [Accessed 8 March 2012].

"Gay caveman probably not gay or a caveman"

So says Adam McDowell of the National Post in one of the few reasonable pieces of reporting on the sensational discovery of a "gay caveman" (click here for the full article). The media frenzy was generated over the discovery of a male skeleton which was buried in what was the typical burial pattern for women in the region. There are so many frustrating aspects to this discovery and it's handling in the media that I don't even know how to begin discussing it. 


I think that in all of the ridiculous comments and assertions that the numerous news articles are riddled with, the ones which focus on the "first gay caveman" as evidence for homosexuality being "natural" make me the most angry. These reporters are the ones who attempt to put a "positive spin" on this "discovery", yet their insistence that homosexuals need historical evidence to legitimize who we are is simply insulting. 

(Thanks The Skeptical Mother!!) Sir Ian McKellen
pretty much sums things up. Even assuming the remains
are male and he was gay, what does it matter!?

Furthermore, I think that throughout this course there is one fact that has made itself apparent time and time again in every aspect of funerary practices that we have studied. This one constant is that the orientation and location of burials, monuments or markers placed with the dead, clothing in which a person is buried, and grave goods all tell us more about the people who did the burying than the individual who was buried. This means that regardless of what the anthropologists and reporters who have commented on this case may believe, the fact that this apparently male individual was buried in the style characteristic of female burials says much more about those who survived him. As many of my classmates have pointed out there may be dozens of alternative explanations (Alysha Zawaduk does a great job of discussing this), ranging from a misclassification of the remains as male to the desire of the buriers to bring shame on this individual in the afterlife. Whatever the true story may be, branding unusual discoveries with blatantly wrong and sensationalized names like "the first gay caveman" does nothing to encourage openminded investigation into the past. 

Reading Tombstones

Spending hours in Ross Bay Cemetery during my time off may not be everyone's idea of a good Reading Break, but I certainly found it both interesting and enjoyable!

Having grown up in Victoria, I have spent a lot of time around the graves in that cemetery, but I've never explored it in the way I did for this class. Even when I took a tour there in the past, I didn't look at the stones quite the same way.

My group originally intended to examine some of the oldest graves compared to the newest graves in a few given sections, then compare the changes in style. However, after spending almost an hour wandering the Roman Catholic section in the cold and wet, we realized that data set would be harder to attain than we thought. Unfortunately the proposed Row Marker System the Old Cemeteries Society of Victoria is setting up has not yet been completed, and was therefor completely unhelpful to us. 

Having reached the conclusion that our original idea was not going to work, and since our feet were already soaking wet, we decided to visit some of the famous people buried in Ross Bay for inspiration! Thus we set to wandering through looking for monuments for people such Isabella Ross, the woman who owned the land where Ross Bay now stands (Old Cemeteries Society of Victoria, 2012),and other prominent historical figures.(Amusingly we struggled to find Emily Carr's monument, although we both noticed the one with all the paintings....)Whilst we were meandering through the various sections searching for some specific monuments, we noticed that many gravestones caught our eyes more than others. 

Thanks backpocketcoo.com!

Then we started to wonder why these certain graves stood out more than the others in the area. Not all of them were the largest, or the flashiest, or the most unusually shaped; yet they all possessed some quality that made them different from the rest. Thus our research question was born:

What qualities make a monument unique?

Furthermore, we were interested in whether there are certain patterns through time? And what motivates a family to choose a specific style for the monument? Did they know the result would stand out among the rest? 

View A Selection of Unique Graves in Ross Bay Cemetery in a larger map

Setting out to select monuments to photograph and map, we took a number of factors into consideration:

Firstly: Were we visually drawn to the monument?

This was important in our selection process, yet we did not define "visually prominent" as a matter of size. Rather we selected gravestones which did not fit in with the surrounding monuments. In some areas, large, projecting, stylized gravemarkers were not uncommon, so in order to stand out something else must be done to catch our attention, as in the Charles Moss marker...

Charles Moss The imposing black
wrought iron fence made this obelisk
more prominent than the others in the area.

Secondly: Was there something unusual about the inscription on the monument?

For example, the Schultz and Sims monument was not only visually prominent, but interesting in that it was dedicated to two individuals-one of which appears to have been an infant child. Furthermore, despite the fact that the more recent interment was in 1987, the grave appears to be regularly maintained. These elements set this grave apart from many others and lead us to include it in the data set, despite initial inclination to leave it out regardless of its imposing size and unusual design. 

Schultz and Sims The size and unusual shape,
plus the different type of plant seen here
made this monument stand out. Yet the dedications
were the reason we ultimately selected this marker.

Thirdly: Was the monument physically different from others of a similar burial type?
We were interested in asking this question in particular due to the differences we perceived in child graves. Three (four if the Schultz and Sims double burial is included) of our selections belong to children, yet they are all very different styles. Whilst they also come from different time periods, we found the variation in monument style particularly interesting.  

D.B. Campbell Despite its age
this monument has been repaired and
maintained fairly well. 

Verna M. This little marker was
not associated with any other family
burials and appeared very weather worn.

William Rhys Henderson-Van Rhyn
Teddy bears and small, maintained
garden make this child grave stand-out.

Selecting the eleven monuments that we did was not difficult; however, it was not particularly scientific either. I believe this could be an interesting question to pursue in other large and unregulated cemeteries if more stringent guidelines for a "unique" monument were set out. Although I do feel that given the scope of this project, we did a fairly good job of selecting monuments based on reasonable guidelines. 


If it were possible to attain the history of all the markers in the Ross Bay Cemetery, it would be interesting to compare the monuments we selected with all the others across given time periods, age of death, religious denomination, ethnicity, and other variables. Even more interesting would be to question the families who selected the monuments and discover what the intention behind their stylization of particular gravestones was. Did they want visitors to be drawn to the grave of a loved one? Were they trying to express some aspect of their relative's life? Or was the stonecutter simply looking to make a name for themselves with an interesting gravestone? 

Bermarija, a Croatian couple. 

It would also be interesting to know how cultural background affects burial choices. For example, the joint Bermarija burial was very interesting and stood out from everything in the adjoining sections. But it had photos of the deceased, which we learned in the article about burial practices in Bam (Garazhian and Papoliyazdi, 2008) sometimes comes in and out of style in a particular region. 

References: 

Garazhian, O. and Papoliyazdi, L., 2008. Mortuary practices in Bam after the earthquake, Journal of Social Archaeology [online]. Available at: http://jsa.sagepub.com/content/8/1/94.full. pdf+html [Accessed January 10, 2012]. 

Old Cemeteries Society of Victoria, 2012. Old Cemeteries Society of Victoria. [Online] Available at http://www.oldcem.bc.ca/ [accessed February 1, 2012]

Books and Bones, Bones and Books

As you, my devoted followers, may have noticed: I like books. 

I am what some people might call a "book person", or a "bibliophile" if you will.

This love of books is in fact one of my favourite qualities about myself.

However, it does get me into trouble when it comes to my time management.

Being a book lover is a very, very consuming passion.

And let me tell you, working in a book store definitely doesn't help!

Especially when the Anthropology section is on the floor I work on...

Due to that, I spend a lot of time "shelving" and "tidying" (ie. scoping out interesting books I'd like to eventually read) in the Anthro section, and there is one book I've gone back to time and time again. This book is called "The Bone Woman" and is by Clea Koff.

Thanks Bookmanager.com!

Have you ever spotted an item while you were shopping (shoes, a shirt, a picture/poster) and wanted it, but not bought it at the time? Maybe you were in a rush, or maybe you couldn't make up your mind. Either way, you leave. And then you think about it. All. The. Time. Then, rather than going and purchasing said item, you go and visit it. That's right, visit. Even though you know actually buying it would make you very happy.

That is what I do with this book. I'll take it off the shelf and flip through it occasionally, I even put it on hold once, but I have yet to actually go through with the purchase.

Then last week I was looking through Erin's blog, and I read her most recent post. In it she mentions The Bone Woman, and I think this is the final push I need to go into work and actually buy myself a copy!

Thinking about The Bone Woman always makes me think about another book that I have been visiting with for years:

Thanks Bookmanager.com!

These two books deal with different sides of the same coin. First you have Romeo Dallaire's well known account of his role in the atrocities which unfolded in the Rwanadian genocide. Then comes The Bone Woman, in which Koff, a 23 year old forensic anthropologist from the USA, is sent to Rwanada to work unearthing mass graves on a team for the United Nations.

Neither of these books are light reads, and I suppose this is part of why I have yet to purchase them. Not that I have difficulty reading about death (even gruesome death) in general. As I pointed out in my first post Dead Men Do Tell Tales is one of my favourite books! (On a side note, the only portion of that book that got to me was the description of the crematorium and cremation process- weird no?).
 
But something about mass graves really, really gets to me. I think it is to do with the senseless disregard for human life on such a huge scale, and the fact that the bodies are then literally dumped into a pit like garbage. I find the thought of even a murderer who brutally kills someone and then hides the body under a floor or in the forest to be somehow better, because they at least recognizes that the body is important enough to hide. Mass graves just feel to me like a lazy garbage disposal system. 

Thanks visualphotos.com

I think that work such as Clea Koff does is absolutely amazing. Giving personhood back to a jumbled pile of bones, and bringing some sense of rest to the families of the victims is an incredible vocation. I also find it really interesting (and wonderful) that the United Nations places such high importance on sending teams into places like Rwanda and Bosnia and Croatia to identify bodies of victims. The fact that the organization which strives to attain World peace is willing to spend time and money on returning remains to families is really special in my mind. And it speaks to the importance of funerary rituals in general that such projects exist. 

Morbid yes...but SO interesting!!

Erin, I can't understand how this didn't catch on as an internet meme on facebook!! Hearing everyone's responses to the question "What would you bury with me to tell future archaeologists who I was?" has been fascinating. I think it's much more interesting than knowing what song was number one on the day you were born, or what your porn star name is...

I decided to conduct a thoroughly scientific survey to answer this week's blog prompt topic :) 

thanks getchatched.com!

(Due to the scientific nature of my research, I felt a scientific paper layout was appropriate :D)

Abstract:

The purpose of this study was to ascertain the discrepancies between self-selected mortuary artifacts and those selected by the deceased's kin. 

Materials and Methods:

I wrote a list of things I'd include in my own burial (although I am actually more likely to donate my organs if viable, and then leave my skeleton to a school! Woohoo!) to let the archaeologists know who I was. After I wrote all that down, I sent out a Facebook message to a bunch of relatives (see I told you it was super scientific)and explained why and what I was asking for. Then I compared the two lists!

Discussion:

My list is fairly simple, there are only a few things that I think I would want to be buried with to symbolize who I was in life. 

These items are:

- CD of photos of my family and friends (originally I wrote down photographs of my fam. then I realized that would disintegrate and a CD might survive, plus I could include waaaay more pictures this way!) 

- Saint George Medal (on my Dad's side the name St. George is passed down with the girls, and my Mom got me a necklace with the medal on it for Christmas one year)

- Celtic Cross (this necklace was given to me by my Grandma, and symbolizes my Irish heritage)

- a Book. (I just don't know which one. Choosing just one would be The. Hardest. Decision. Ever.)

This is my dream library!!
Thanks storybookloveaffair.blogspot.com

So that's pretty much all I feel would be necessary to tell the future world that I loved my family and friends and was a bit of a bibliophile!! Which really, in the long run, is all that I think matters.

But you guys, if I let my family go ahead with their plans, there would be a Luke and Uncle Louie coffin situation a la Gilmore Girls on our hands!! My coffin just wouldn't close. I would need the coffin of a giant. Maybe even of Andre The Giant. Eventually they would have to start just throwing stuff in the pit. And I'm pretty sure that would not go over well with the cemetery groundskeepers. Not to mention the poor Grad student who had to document the discovery of my grave!

If I were to die today, my family would bury me with the following:

- the complete Harry Potter set
- the complete Robert Jordan set
- the book I've read over and over (probably Pride and Prejudice!)
- Pat the Bunny
- Madeline
- a bed of books (presumably including the above series, but my brother didn't specify. Besides I'm 5'7.5" so I would need a lot more books than that to make a bed...)
- Tears for Fears CD 
- copy of Ever After (my most favourite movie EVER!!!)
- my current passport and expired passport
- a passport renewal application form 
- a list of palindromes (you know, like "racecar" and "A man, a plan, a canal: Panama" and "blalb")
- paper with the conjugation of the latin verb "amo"

- tokens of some sort from all of my friends and family
- bath oils
- candles
- comfy/whimsical sweater and socks (incase I get a chill)

- a batch of chocolate cookies with my Grandma's recipe

- my favourite childhood stuffed animals (Sweater Bear and Platypus!) 

- currency from all the countries I've traveled to  

- coins to pay the ferry man

- a cheque for $100,000 that my Mom says I can spend any way I want!

- some quality winter ale

- large case of Strongbow

- "replica of a gray cat who has survived abandonment and the ravages of a rare disease" (/fur clippings from my family's many cats!)

- oh and I'll be wearing my pajamas plus my favourite boots...

Phew!! Just writing all that down was exhausting! I can't imagine how tiring actually getting all that into my coffin would be :p 

I imagine a situation like this might unfold!

 Thanks bloomsandbaskets.com!

So despite their best intentions to send me off in style and comfort and with lots of love, basically the message my family and friends would be inadvertently sending into the future goes something like this:

Meredith really liked books. Like a lot. Maybe to a crazy degree? Also she may have been running some sort of passport scam and/or trying to flee the country (the cheque, the coins, the many currencies). But that's okay because she might also have been too drunk to pull it off, or too preoccupied with all the fur. The whole relaxation/spa aspect (pajamas, candles, bath oils) will continue to perplex archaeologists.


Or they might just assume I was a hoarder!!!

thanks survivorsucks.com!

On a serious note:
I was really touched with all of the things my family and friends said they would include. It really did make me realize how burials are far more a reflection of the people who did the burying than of the dead person themselves. It makes me wonder how often in anthropology we learn more about the buriers than the buried without realizing it. This is a very simplified version of what their replies entailed- everything came with an explanation what each item meant to them and what they intended it to say about me. Thinking about not being around anymore made me go all weird and get an awful tight-chest-panicy feeling, but I still found this to be an incredibly rewarding exercise :)


I always find the aspect of food and drinks in ancient burials really fascinating. The idea of sending someone on to the next life with nourishment and sustenance feels like a very special thing to do. It is interesting that the incorporation of food in some form or another is a fairly common feature in burial practices; even more interesting is that anthropologists have the technology to discover what types of food and drink were included! Looks like my family was on the right track with their cookies and cider!!